109: Radical Candor: A Leadership Style Every Manager Should Know w/ Wendy Harris

August 19, 2021 00:35:42
109: Radical Candor: A Leadership Style Every Manager Should Know w/ Wendy Harris
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109: Radical Candor: A Leadership Style Every Manager Should Know w/ Wendy Harris

Aug 19 2021 | 00:35:42

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Show Notes

Something people often get wrong in leadership is prioritizing their need to be liked over what’s best for their employee. In reality, caring for the employee means showing kindness by telling the truth, even when it’s challenging to share or hear.

In this episode, I interview Wendy Harris, Head of EMEA at Gong, about how applying the principles of radical candor has changed her leadership style.

In this episode we discuss:

-Her new role as Head of EMEA at Gong

-An overview of Radical Candor (the book and the practice)

-Dos and don’ts for newer leaders

-Building a culture of giving and receiving feedback

Check out these resources we mentioned during the podcast:

-Radical Candor by Kim Scott

Wendy Harris can be found on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendyharrisirl/

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WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.520 --> 00:00:08.349 You were listening to bb revenue acceleration, a podcast dedicated helping software executive stay 2 00:00:08.390 --> 00:00:12.189 on the cutting edge of sales and marketing in their industry. Let's get into 3 00:00:12.230 --> 00:00:16.269 the show. Hi, you welcome to be to be a revenue acceleration. 4 00:00:16.550 --> 00:00:20.589 My name is Ovini Amoutier and I'm here today with when they arris at of 5 00:00:20.629 --> 00:00:23.820 Yen Ya, at Gong. How is it going to the Wendy? It's 6 00:00:23.940 --> 00:00:26.820 great, sure, really unhappy to be here. Thanks for having me well, 7 00:00:27.019 --> 00:00:30.300 so pleasure. Is Great to have you so you know we've been following 8 00:00:30.500 --> 00:00:34.619 Gong far little while. Is Good that you guys are finally coming into Europe. 9 00:00:34.659 --> 00:00:37.689 We can't wait to get closer to you. But before we get going 10 00:00:37.890 --> 00:00:42.729 today, we will speak about Freddy called candle leadership style every manager should know 11 00:00:42.969 --> 00:00:48.210 about. I don't know about it, before the conversation today. But before 12 00:00:48.250 --> 00:00:51.439 we go into the conversation, could you please tell us a little bit more 13 00:00:51.439 --> 00:00:56.799 about yourself? Why you join your drink gong and your Cara in the tech 14 00:00:56.840 --> 00:01:02.159 industry is sure happy to so. I actually spent the first eleven years of 15 00:01:02.280 --> 00:01:04.670 my career at Colman Stack, where I worked as a trader in London. 16 00:01:04.709 --> 00:01:08.549 And Chicago, Soos and Francis Service for a long time, but I saw 17 00:01:08.629 --> 00:01:11.469 the lights and I realized I wanted to move home to Dublin, and Dublin 18 00:01:11.469 --> 00:01:15.549 as a thriving hub for tech firms, and my brothers worked in Google and 19 00:01:15.590 --> 00:01:21.299 facebook. So I was trying to change industries from finance attack you. Definitely 20 00:01:21.379 --> 00:01:26.180 was harder than I expected. So I took a contract marketing role at facebook 21 00:01:26.219 --> 00:01:29.019 to get my foot in the door. Did that for a while, then 22 00:01:29.219 --> 00:01:32.459 then went to a company called add roll where I ran their UK are land 23 00:01:32.500 --> 00:01:36.250 sales team. Then moved on to drop box, or I spent two and 24 00:01:36.290 --> 00:01:42.129 a half years and leading European sales, and then Uki failed and European sales, 25 00:01:42.530 --> 00:01:45.730 and then most recently, before gone and I was at a company called 26 00:01:45.810 --> 00:01:49.920 car gurus, where around their European sales team. So I will say that 27 00:01:51.400 --> 00:01:55.120 I definitely was not looking when gon came along. I have never seen the 28 00:01:55.159 --> 00:01:59.760 product, I'd heard the buzz I heard. I knew there was something special 29 00:01:59.760 --> 00:02:01.829 about the company. So I took the call and I'm very glad I took 30 00:02:01.870 --> 00:02:06.510 the call because when I did see the product, I was my mind was 31 00:02:06.549 --> 00:02:10.189 blown because I didn't realize anything with that ever existed. So I'm lucky to 32 00:02:10.270 --> 00:02:16.020 be working for a company where I am absolutely obsessed with the products and fully 33 00:02:16.099 --> 00:02:20.860 brought into what I'm doing on a daily basis. And Revenue Intelligence to category 34 00:02:20.979 --> 00:02:23.219 is the new big thing. So tell us a little bit of box room 35 00:02:23.259 --> 00:02:28.780 new intelligens because I think there is, as we discussed when we prepar on 36 00:02:28.860 --> 00:02:35.009 the GPS at today, and you know, I think Romenu intelligence squads a 37 00:02:35.050 --> 00:02:38.770 familiar concept in not America. I think he's getting down to Europe, but 38 00:02:38.889 --> 00:02:43.810 probably had to adduslow up base. So could you just summarize a little bit 39 00:02:43.889 --> 00:02:46.759 the concept of a new intelligence police and now, just so we can make 40 00:02:46.759 --> 00:02:50.680 sure that everybody's on the same page? Absolutely. So, essentially, what 41 00:02:50.800 --> 00:02:54.520 it's doing? It's solving a universally painful problem, which is a lack of 42 00:02:54.560 --> 00:02:59.669 visibility, and by that I mean when leaders want to understand what's going on 43 00:02:59.830 --> 00:03:01.789 in their business, they'll go and they look at their crem and they look 44 00:03:01.830 --> 00:03:05.949 at dashboards and they'll see the results and they'll see, you know, win 45 00:03:05.990 --> 00:03:09.430 rates and they and they'll see various different sort of you know, revenue closed, 46 00:03:09.550 --> 00:03:15.259 but what they don't see is any insight into what's happening at the critical 47 00:03:15.300 --> 00:03:20.500 point of execution. They see lagging indicators, not leading indicators. So that's 48 00:03:20.539 --> 00:03:23.099 where Gong and reft, the revenue intelligence category, comes in. So essentially 49 00:03:23.139 --> 00:03:30.210 the way it works is we capture interactions across email, phone, web conferencing 50 00:03:30.849 --> 00:03:38.009 and we integrate with the CRM and we we use our artificial intelligence to pull 51 00:03:38.090 --> 00:03:43.960 out insights to tell you why did this deal close? In this deal didn't, 52 00:03:44.240 --> 00:03:46.039 did not close. Why is your top Rep, your top wrap, 53 00:03:46.520 --> 00:03:51.479 which one of your competitors, is really a problem with your clients are actually 54 00:03:51.479 --> 00:03:55.590 speaking about? So it basically pulls back the black box which exists right now, 55 00:03:55.870 --> 00:04:00.310 and and we all know. You know crm serve a purpose, but 56 00:04:00.509 --> 00:04:04.750 the information cms is stale, it's distorted, it's missing information. You know 57 00:04:04.909 --> 00:04:09.990 you have something like six thousand words on a call and thirty of them make 58 00:04:10.020 --> 00:04:14.740 it into sales wars or crm, and so I think it's basically filling in 59 00:04:14.819 --> 00:04:17.259 that black box. It's showing you what's actually happened so you can base and 60 00:04:17.339 --> 00:04:23.660 make business decisions based on facts, not opinions. Yeah, that makes perf 61 00:04:23.699 --> 00:04:28.649 ex sense. And and tell me about the importance of when new intelligence. 62 00:04:28.850 --> 00:04:32.970 I mean obviously you are not with going as such during the Covid Biot so 63 00:04:33.250 --> 00:04:36.610 we kind of coming out of covies, what we all hope. So yes, 64 00:04:38.089 --> 00:04:40.720 great to go back to the pub let's let's please keep them open. 65 00:04:41.079 --> 00:04:45.920 But but what do you think is the importance of how important you think is 66 00:04:46.040 --> 00:04:49.319 revenue intelligence in the current market, which is, from my perspects, you've 67 00:04:49.319 --> 00:04:57.430 pretty much changing every day with the the covid restriction lifting, people going back 68 00:04:57.470 --> 00:05:00.269 to your fees, not coming back walking from a wind to shop. Yeah, 69 00:05:00.310 --> 00:05:04.910 I mean it's turbulent times and I think what s to the covid revealed 70 00:05:05.029 --> 00:05:09.860 was obviously the world changed on the access overnight and sort of what it showed 71 00:05:10.100 --> 00:05:14.699 was the tools from me yesterday, the sales tools we had no longer sort 72 00:05:14.740 --> 00:05:17.899 of really answered solve the problems of today. Right. So suddenly everyone's remote, 73 00:05:17.899 --> 00:05:21.730 everyone's working in their kitchens. All of the learning by US Moses and 74 00:05:21.889 --> 00:05:26.329 that used to happen on the sales floor that went away. And this putting 75 00:05:26.370 --> 00:05:29.209 about visibility. How do you visibility? And what you can see? The 76 00:05:29.290 --> 00:05:31.889 activities that you're ups are doing, but how do you actually know what the 77 00:05:31.930 --> 00:05:35.319 quality taste of conversation what's happening, how do you ramp? How do you 78 00:05:35.399 --> 00:05:40.199 bring people on board? And you know, new horse. I started a 79 00:05:40.279 --> 00:05:43.360 gone two months ago, like thank God I started a gun and could use 80 00:05:43.439 --> 00:05:46.759 them to on board, because otherwise I would be in a precarious position. 81 00:05:46.800 --> 00:05:51.670 But I think it's basically it's solving this problem that now I don't think anyone 82 00:05:51.790 --> 00:05:56.750 thinks everyone's going back to the office five days a week forever. So I 83 00:05:57.069 --> 00:06:00.550 think you know, hybrid or remote work is here to stay in one form 84 00:06:00.589 --> 00:06:03.029 or another, and obviously this is a huge problem that companies are trying to 85 00:06:03.069 --> 00:06:08.860 grapple with. And but I think at tool like gone with the Reverend Revenue 86 00:06:08.860 --> 00:06:13.980 Intelligence category solves gives you the visibility into what's happening on the front lines and 87 00:06:14.180 --> 00:06:16.860 helps on boarding, is such a critical like time drag right the time to 88 00:06:16.939 --> 00:06:21.529 productivity is key in terms of bringing on new hires in this new world. 89 00:06:21.769 --> 00:06:27.170 And you know, and and and honestly, a survey of our customers show 90 00:06:27.250 --> 00:06:30.569 that a sixty percent decrease in rap time. So I think when I worked 91 00:06:30.649 --> 00:06:34.879 pre pre gone in my my last job at car grews, when covid hit, 92 00:06:35.279 --> 00:06:41.040 obviously everyone saw a spike in churn and we saw increase question marks about 93 00:06:41.040 --> 00:06:45.879 billing payments. We wanted low, longer, shorter contract lens and I think 94 00:06:46.040 --> 00:06:49.230 something like a to like God, gives you is it can. It gives 95 00:06:49.269 --> 00:06:54.949 you the leading indicator that this is a this is a firm asking for asking 96 00:06:54.949 --> 00:06:58.310 about contract len this is a firm that looks like it's showing churn signals. 97 00:06:58.629 --> 00:07:01.500 So it gives you that insight before it's too late. And I used to 98 00:07:01.500 --> 00:07:05.019 spend my life going around and asking all of my reps for like, what's 99 00:07:05.019 --> 00:07:08.459 happening? You know, and you as ten different people, you get ten 100 00:07:08.500 --> 00:07:13.019 different answers and they say, you know, it's basically just pulls back the 101 00:07:13.060 --> 00:07:15.970 curtain and tells you, okay, this is actually really a problem, this 102 00:07:15.089 --> 00:07:18.250 is actually what's going on, before it's too late and save you the time 103 00:07:18.250 --> 00:07:24.089 of asking a tenzero question to good, which is great. So now let's 104 00:07:24.089 --> 00:07:27.170 let's talk about and I'm sure I don't one I know we want to speak 105 00:07:27.170 --> 00:07:31.079 about really called Gundom. I'm always interested tondoors. The scale of you need 106 00:07:31.120 --> 00:07:35.160 to plan recee in the European markets, different market from the US, different 107 00:07:35.279 --> 00:07:40.279 region, different languages, difference, counchh also, can you tell us are 108 00:07:40.519 --> 00:07:43.360 reaching you? You probably call going to the details of yours Friday GMIA, 109 00:07:43.639 --> 00:07:47.069 but you know what's your main focus of right next few months for you to 110 00:07:47.110 --> 00:07:51.750 scale across Europe? Sure, I think in general for any well, first 111 00:07:51.790 --> 00:07:57.110 of all I always like to give a plug to frontline ventures. Doesn't excellent 112 00:07:57.189 --> 00:08:01.740 report, like Stephen mcentyre Rosen, excellent report on what us be to be 113 00:08:01.939 --> 00:08:05.259 firms, get wrong about launching anemia, and I really recommend that as a 114 00:08:05.379 --> 00:08:09.420 read. So what they say is, in terms of timing you need to 115 00:08:09.540 --> 00:08:13.009 think about you know, is your US business well funded? Are Is your 116 00:08:13.889 --> 00:08:18.209 is it a priority for their exact team? Is Their strength and death and 117 00:08:18.290 --> 00:08:20.089 the exact team? Is there a local pull from the market? Right? 118 00:08:20.129 --> 00:08:24.089 So, so with gone. There was definitely a local pull for the market. 119 00:08:24.170 --> 00:08:28.600 We already have over a hundred customers and in Amia without having ever outbound 120 00:08:28.639 --> 00:08:31.799 salt here, and you know we support twenty six different languages. So so 121 00:08:31.919 --> 00:08:35.399 there was a real pull in the market and the way we think about it 122 00:08:35.519 --> 00:08:37.879 and the way you know from what I've seen a dropbox and other firms that 123 00:08:37.919 --> 00:08:41.590 I suggest people think about it is don't try and be everything to everybody on 124 00:08:41.629 --> 00:08:46.509 day one. There is you don't have to start and try and sell to 125 00:08:46.669 --> 00:08:48.909 SMB and to strategic accounts on day one. It's there's a lot to be 126 00:08:48.990 --> 00:08:54.070 said for focus. So focus meaning, you know, start, look at 127 00:08:54.110 --> 00:08:58.580 your maybe a company's sub fifteen hundred employees or sub of house employees and get 128 00:08:58.620 --> 00:09:03.179 a foothold and get a base and get your reference customers and learn product market 129 00:09:03.340 --> 00:09:07.259 fish and feedback from local market which, as you said, will be different 130 00:09:07.299 --> 00:09:09.850 to the US and you will come across different challenges like, you know, 131 00:09:11.049 --> 00:09:13.970 a privacy or GDP are, etc. Etc. So get that product mark 132 00:09:15.009 --> 00:09:18.409 of fit, get your custom references, understand work what segments you play well 133 00:09:18.490 --> 00:09:22.809 in before you move up market. And then also when you think about scaling 134 00:09:22.889 --> 00:09:26.279 across countries. You know, if you think about what's most similar to the 135 00:09:26.360 --> 00:09:31.440 US, well, you know UK and Ireland as a pretty it is probably 136 00:09:31.480 --> 00:09:33.759 the safest bet to land in Europe. And terms of similarities, we're not 137 00:09:33.879 --> 00:09:39.149 very we're not entirely similar, but we're not totally dissimilar. And then beyond 138 00:09:39.230 --> 00:09:41.750 that it's like, okay, well, where is there very strong English adoption 139 00:09:41.990 --> 00:09:46.789 and nordics is an obvious place, and the Netherlands. Yeah, exactly, 140 00:09:46.830 --> 00:09:50.590 the Netherlands. In dropbox we had a ton of business in South Africa, 141 00:09:50.909 --> 00:09:54.820 which is a very similar time zone, and obviously you, you're speaking as 142 00:09:54.860 --> 00:09:58.580 well. And then, beyond that, France and Germany are the whales and 143 00:09:58.659 --> 00:10:01.019 you need to land France in Germany. But you need to approach with caution 144 00:10:01.580 --> 00:10:05.779 because while, as you know, more than most imagined, while they are, 145 00:10:05.779 --> 00:10:09.730 you know, huge opportunities, it's also critical you get the right you 146 00:10:09.889 --> 00:10:13.850 need to think about things like works councils and, you know again the privacy 147 00:10:13.929 --> 00:10:16.889 and the local regulations. So I think it's about scaling. So two things 148 00:10:16.929 --> 00:10:20.649 to think about this. One the size of the customer you're selling to and 149 00:10:20.850 --> 00:10:22.799 to the cadence of the country. Scale out. You don't need to be 150 00:10:22.879 --> 00:10:26.159 everything to everybody on day one. You should think about in terms of pass 151 00:10:26.840 --> 00:10:31.120 good now. So I think it's great strategy. Well, good luck. 152 00:10:31.120 --> 00:10:33.480 Who is all that? I'm sure you guys going to do a fantastic job 153 00:10:33.159 --> 00:10:37.029 going in Europe. So we were looking forward to witnessing a great growth and 154 00:10:37.190 --> 00:10:41.269 some great clients and, as I said earlier on, freedom all walk with 155 00:10:41.509 --> 00:10:45.269 you. Now that you have close up to us. So let's talk about 156 00:10:45.309 --> 00:10:48.830 study called Ken Don now, so you know, in the preparation of these 157 00:10:48.909 --> 00:10:52.659 discipie's aid we spoke to you and you are very passionate about that leadership style. 158 00:10:54.539 --> 00:10:58.659 This is coming from Kim's cut. She's ex Google and wrote a book 159 00:10:58.700 --> 00:11:01.659 about it. So can you just tell us a little bit more? You'll 160 00:11:01.740 --> 00:11:05.610 take on ready called Kendo. What it means? Yeah, I am it 161 00:11:05.889 --> 00:11:09.450 is something I always any anybody that works me, I ask them to read 162 00:11:09.610 --> 00:11:13.009 this book because I think it's just it is a it is what I would 163 00:11:13.009 --> 00:11:18.759 consider certainly my Bible of leadership and and I think the best way to explain 164 00:11:18.799 --> 00:11:22.679 it is there is an exact seas and the y axis, and it's about, 165 00:11:22.960 --> 00:11:26.879 I think it says so maybe some cheesy titline which is something how to 166 00:11:26.919 --> 00:11:31.679 be a kick ass boss without losing your humanity, but the the ex actis 167 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:33.789 is the things like chat, to check, to care personally, and the 168 00:11:33.870 --> 00:11:39.549 Y axis is challenged directly. So you the quadrant you want to be in 169 00:11:39.830 --> 00:11:43.350 is the quadron called radical candor. That is where you care personally but you 170 00:11:43.429 --> 00:11:48.779 challenge directly. The three other quadronts are manipulative insincerity, which is a terrible 171 00:11:48.779 --> 00:11:50.820 quadrant. You don't want to be in that. It's where you don't care, 172 00:11:50.899 --> 00:11:56.299 you don't challenge. The A obnoxious aggression. Oh Yeah, yeah, 173 00:11:56.379 --> 00:12:01.220 I'm not, just want to play you away every declaim. Yeah, yeah, 174 00:12:01.259 --> 00:12:03.250 I'm not. Just aggression, which is where you don't care but you 175 00:12:03.289 --> 00:12:07.090 do challenge, and I in full the SCLOSURE. I have been known to 176 00:12:07.169 --> 00:12:11.769 bear into that categree occasionally with the cross functional stakeholders. And then the other 177 00:12:11.929 --> 00:12:16.799 category, where a lot of new managers especially and find themselves is ruinous empathy, 178 00:12:16.159 --> 00:12:22.720 where they do care but they don't challenge. And so it's you often 179 00:12:22.799 --> 00:12:28.200 see people prioritize their need to be liked over what's best for their actual employee. 180 00:12:28.440 --> 00:12:31.590 So they were unwilling to have a hard conversation with someone or a straight 181 00:12:31.669 --> 00:12:33.870 conversation because they worried the person would like them. And that is not good 182 00:12:33.909 --> 00:12:39.710 leadership. And when you when you say carrying, you carry about the individual, 183 00:12:39.669 --> 00:12:43.990 carrying about the mission of the company. Caring about your word, it's 184 00:12:43.070 --> 00:12:48.379 caring about the individual. So I see leadership as a privilege and it's a 185 00:12:48.460 --> 00:12:50.299 very hard job. It comes with a lot of responsibility but you need to 186 00:12:50.340 --> 00:12:54.580 care about the individual and care about the person and you build trust and you 187 00:12:54.700 --> 00:12:58.250 build upon with them. But caring about someone doesn't mean that you never give 188 00:12:58.289 --> 00:13:03.570 them any constructive our tough feedback. Actually, the kindest thing you can do 189 00:13:03.690 --> 00:13:07.450 to someone is tell them place. You tell them the truth right and I 190 00:13:07.529 --> 00:13:13.399 think people really prioritize their own comfort over hard conversations sometimes. So this book 191 00:13:13.440 --> 00:13:18.960 gives a framework for how to think about having tougher conversations and actually it's for 192 00:13:20.080 --> 00:13:22.120 the best of the person you're it's the kindest thing you can do. It's 193 00:13:22.120 --> 00:13:26.919 not the mean astay to do, it's the kindest thing there it's really about 194 00:13:26.080 --> 00:13:30.789 respect and helping also to develop, basically on or somewhere. I mean when 195 00:13:30.789 --> 00:13:33.750 you are in the right pattern. And I agree with you. Sometimes we 196 00:13:33.029 --> 00:13:37.870 witness people and we probably have a few in our organization that's really put the 197 00:13:37.950 --> 00:13:41.659 work. We've got some really workouts, people like you know twelve such in 198 00:13:41.740 --> 00:13:46.259 hours a day and you know, you just the way they could interact with 199 00:13:46.419 --> 00:13:50.299 people that maybe on the same level but maybe doing a little bit less, 200 00:13:50.299 --> 00:13:54.580 because I don't know, some people have kids, some people have thinks that 201 00:13:54.659 --> 00:13:58.210 they can be you know, sending emails at eight nineteen in the evening, 202 00:14:00.210 --> 00:14:03.049 you know, and these are people at tredy care that don't mind sending you 203 00:14:03.129 --> 00:14:07.850 know, being challengeding to the other. But the question is, do they 204 00:14:07.929 --> 00:14:11.840 really respect the person? And also, I think there is it's an interesting 205 00:14:11.879 --> 00:14:16.639 thing about the caring because I've also seen people who think that they care about 206 00:14:16.639 --> 00:14:20.039 the individual but again the receiving and or the person of the receiving and don't 207 00:14:20.080 --> 00:14:22.080 feel that they're being cared about the other being respected. So I think there 208 00:14:22.159 --> 00:14:26.429 is two elements. There is an element of and as how I speak to 209 00:14:26.549 --> 00:14:28.950 it, I speak about it with mighty men. I'M gonna get that book 210 00:14:28.990 --> 00:14:31.509 and put it in the I was about say I'm going to put it into 211 00:14:31.509 --> 00:14:35.669 the lobby so everybody read it, but the obvious at the moment. But 212 00:14:37.509 --> 00:14:41.659 I think it's really important to all that sort of of balance between provading the 213 00:14:41.700 --> 00:14:46.460 feedback but also that it's all do you create that caring relationship so people feel 214 00:14:46.539 --> 00:14:52.889 cared about, and it's do you get them to meet socially. I mean, 215 00:14:52.210 --> 00:14:56.649 do you think he's small difficult? Now is defied. Everybody's online because 216 00:14:56.889 --> 00:14:58.570 that's what they feel. I feel that he's probably super to get people and 217 00:15:00.129 --> 00:15:03.009 maybe it's because I spend too much team in England. Well, put on 218 00:15:03.090 --> 00:15:09.399 the pad to make friends right and I think because I would love to be 219 00:15:09.480 --> 00:15:11.440 able to go down to the pub. But actually the pubs in Ireland only 220 00:15:11.519 --> 00:15:15.480 open properly yesterday, so that's exciting for the first time in eighteen months. 221 00:15:15.759 --> 00:15:20.080 But not to your point. I'm a big believer in yes, obviously facetoface 222 00:15:20.120 --> 00:15:24.950 when it's possible. Right. Everything over zoomed. It's far from my deal. 223 00:15:24.909 --> 00:15:28.909 But what I will also say so there's times when you need to go 224 00:15:28.110 --> 00:15:31.190 for a walk with someone on your team. You do not need to sit 225 00:15:31.230 --> 00:15:33.269 in the conference room and talk about their pipeline. You need to go for 226 00:15:33.350 --> 00:15:35.139 a walk with them and if you ever have to have tough conversations, are 227 00:15:35.139 --> 00:15:39.179 you trying to build a relationship. You need to invest in that one on 228 00:15:39.299 --> 00:15:41.899 one time with the individual and say some of the individual. I will also 229 00:15:41.940 --> 00:15:46.500 say I am a big believer in the work of Dr Brenn a brown, 230 00:15:46.700 --> 00:15:50.730 and it's all about vulnerability and the power vulnerability. If you you need to 231 00:15:50.809 --> 00:15:56.690 show vulnerability to your people and be if they see you being straight with them 232 00:15:56.769 --> 00:16:00.009 and sharing you know your struggles are your insights with them as well. Then 233 00:16:00.009 --> 00:16:02.929 they feel they have a safe space to do the same with you and you 234 00:16:03.049 --> 00:16:04.679 meet, you get to a different level. And so what I mean like 235 00:16:04.759 --> 00:16:08.279 that I've took I've spoken to my team's previously about mental health. I've spoken 236 00:16:08.279 --> 00:16:11.879 about, you know, some my health issues in the past. It's like, 237 00:16:11.360 --> 00:16:15.200 I'm not bulletproof. No one's bulletproof and if you look like you're an 238 00:16:15.200 --> 00:16:19.950 approach on they can't get they can't sink with you on the same level because 239 00:16:19.990 --> 00:16:23.590 they just this ear to sort of your you know, they can't connect with 240 00:16:23.789 --> 00:16:27.909 you, then that trust will never really get built. So it's really about 241 00:16:27.950 --> 00:16:33.019 showing your vulnerability, trying to open up conversations and setting the example. If 242 00:16:33.059 --> 00:16:37.700 you lead with vulnerability and being honest and saying I don't know, help guys, 243 00:16:37.740 --> 00:16:40.580 I don't know what to do here. Have some ideas, but I 244 00:16:40.659 --> 00:16:44.419 need your help and you'll get a lot back from the person. Now agree. 245 00:16:44.539 --> 00:16:48.490 I think it's so true and it's particular. You got to think you 246 00:16:48.570 --> 00:16:52.289 know when you are lead brought the TUB, Tub, TUB, which usually 247 00:16:52.330 --> 00:16:55.889 takes people who are already be quscinate about what they are doing and people would 248 00:16:55.929 --> 00:17:00.049 get a lot people to big Nisha and obviously have probably quite a strong walk 249 00:17:00.129 --> 00:17:04.000 if he can rest of great stuff. You know, it's a finally difficult 250 00:17:04.119 --> 00:17:07.759 sometimes to put my passion my back book it. You know what, I 251 00:17:07.880 --> 00:17:10.559 want to get things done and it's so fine. I the need to apologize 252 00:17:10.559 --> 00:17:11.680 to people. Just look, you know, I'm so sorry. The missing 253 00:17:11.759 --> 00:17:15.549 of the send to you or the congustion that they get to you or the 254 00:17:15.589 --> 00:17:21.990 way we interacting probably completely overwhelmed you. But look, think about the content. 255 00:17:22.269 --> 00:17:23.750 That the fuck when I put just for the contents, you know, 256 00:17:23.750 --> 00:17:26.789 I should have probably just give you a couple of phase and let you think 257 00:17:26.789 --> 00:17:30.180 about it. Slip on it does use just like kind of coming as a 258 00:17:30.220 --> 00:17:32.380 machine gun and just so let's get it done in this is exactly what we're 259 00:17:32.380 --> 00:17:34.259 going to get it done any good. What is quiet. It's quite of 260 00:17:34.380 --> 00:17:37.900 a bearing for people and this probably not showing them a lot of respect if 261 00:17:37.940 --> 00:17:41.940 we don't, if I don't actually give them ther Portuny easy to do as 262 00:17:42.019 --> 00:17:45.769 the right question of things for himself. That makes sense. I definitely going 263 00:17:45.809 --> 00:17:48.809 to read that book, but a really and what you said there, though, 264 00:17:48.930 --> 00:17:51.329 is you said, I said sorry, like, guess what, I 265 00:17:51.450 --> 00:17:52.849 made mistakes every day. We all do. We're all human. So the 266 00:17:52.890 --> 00:17:56.809 fact that you acknowledge that, you said sorry and you showed the self awareness 267 00:17:56.930 --> 00:17:59.799 to do though, people they're like, oh, thank goodness. You know, 268 00:17:59.839 --> 00:18:02.519 then it's great. It's like, so that's the thing. It's leader's 269 00:18:02.559 --> 00:18:04.160 being willing to say, I'm sorry, I got that wrong. Like I've 270 00:18:04.200 --> 00:18:07.640 gone into a meeting. That's something bad happened in my personal life. I've 271 00:18:07.640 --> 00:18:11.119 gone into a meeting, I've been in a bad mood. I've taken out 272 00:18:11.160 --> 00:18:14.670 of my reps before and I remember one specific example where I did that, 273 00:18:14.990 --> 00:18:17.190 you know, a few years back, and I took them into a room 274 00:18:17.190 --> 00:18:21.549 later that day and I apologize. I said I'm sorry, I I could 275 00:18:21.589 --> 00:18:23.549 have dealt with that meeting better this morning and there's something going on. I 276 00:18:23.589 --> 00:18:26.579 didn't come out that and it's like going, you know what, we're human, 277 00:18:26.700 --> 00:18:30.940 right, so we will get things wrong. It's okay to apologize and 278 00:18:30.619 --> 00:18:33.980 you get so much more respect when you're honest about it. Yeah, just 279 00:18:34.099 --> 00:18:38.019 that. But my last conversation of that nature was to apologize for being selfish, 280 00:18:38.059 --> 00:18:41.289 because the conduction of the hads yours individual it's just to make me feel 281 00:18:41.329 --> 00:18:45.450 that now. Yeah, definitely was really to butt me to invent and making 282 00:18:45.450 --> 00:18:48.369 you finish it. So I wot it when I should read them do that. 283 00:18:48.490 --> 00:18:52.609 So pullied, but now I agree with you. So can you give 284 00:18:52.609 --> 00:18:56.079 us a couple of example of of situation in which you've seen it walking extremely 285 00:18:56.160 --> 00:19:02.440 well and situation where maybe you not seem ready contender walking as well in your 286 00:19:02.680 --> 00:19:06.000 in your professional life? Sure I can give you an example. I think 287 00:19:06.000 --> 00:19:10.150 that people always think we don't. It doesn't even need to be employee and, 288 00:19:10.829 --> 00:19:12.269 you know, manager to wrap. What I think it can be as 289 00:19:12.309 --> 00:19:18.269 well is like your wreck to customer. So if you think about the credibility, 290 00:19:18.309 --> 00:19:21.150 you guess with a wrap. For I, for example, I remember 291 00:19:21.670 --> 00:19:26.579 moment my last company when we were on where I saw a client was on 292 00:19:26.700 --> 00:19:30.819 a trial and the trial didn't go that well and the REP didn't try and 293 00:19:30.900 --> 00:19:33.299 hide from this. It happens sometimes, right. There's very different factors that 294 00:19:33.380 --> 00:19:37.299 go into how trial might perform, and so what the REC did was the 295 00:19:37.380 --> 00:19:41.329 rep did genuinely also care about the relationship with the customer. I said, 296 00:19:41.369 --> 00:19:44.769 look, I'm sorry, this didn't go well. I understand. You know, 297 00:19:44.890 --> 00:19:48.490 if we didn't meet live up to your expectations. I'd love an opportunity 298 00:19:48.490 --> 00:19:51.289 to extend this, but if you want to part as friends, that's okay. 299 00:19:51.890 --> 00:19:55.319 Obviously what happened was that customer was like, you've got so much credibility 300 00:19:55.400 --> 00:19:56.839 with me because I can tell you care about my business. You're not being 301 00:19:56.960 --> 00:20:00.839 fake, you want me to succeed and you're not trying to sell me something 302 00:20:00.880 --> 00:20:07.039 that's wrong for me. So it actually started fantastic relationship where their customer went 303 00:20:07.119 --> 00:20:08.829 on. It's grown and grown ever since. So so I think when you 304 00:20:10.349 --> 00:20:14.390 if you think about in the professional context with customers as well, if you're 305 00:20:14.509 --> 00:20:18.670 honest and and if you're honest with them and talk about you know when it's 306 00:20:18.710 --> 00:20:22.259 not going right, rather than trying to be fake about it, then that's 307 00:20:22.299 --> 00:20:26.380 a great example right. And I think we're seen to go horribly wrong. 308 00:20:26.980 --> 00:20:30.180 I remember somebody, and this is called the ruinous empathy poderrant, I remember 309 00:20:30.299 --> 00:20:33.339 someone being fired. I sat in the room with a guy who was being 310 00:20:33.380 --> 00:20:37.289 fired and the manager was firing him and the guy had no idea who was 311 00:20:37.329 --> 00:20:38.890 being fired and he was about to walk out of the room not knowing he 312 00:20:38.970 --> 00:20:44.210 had been fired, because the manager had used such vague language and talked around 313 00:20:44.250 --> 00:20:48.609 everything rather than said exactly what he needed to hear, because because she found 314 00:20:48.609 --> 00:20:53.960 the words too hard to use directly. And so clear is kind, unclear 315 00:20:55.200 --> 00:20:56.920 is unkind. I use that phrase a lot with my team. Clear is 316 00:20:57.000 --> 00:21:02.680 kind, unclear is unkind, and you know, people think that they're being 317 00:21:02.680 --> 00:21:06.630 kind by putting a load of padding on it. Be Straight. Gong has 318 00:21:06.630 --> 00:21:08.470 an operating principle of no sugar, which I loved. When I saw that 319 00:21:08.509 --> 00:21:11.390 I was like, Oh goody, and it's not it. It's not a 320 00:21:11.990 --> 00:21:14.589 it's not an excuse to be, you know, bad person, to be 321 00:21:14.670 --> 00:21:18.740 aggressive and be it's not that. It's about, you know, asking permission 322 00:21:18.779 --> 00:21:21.940 to say it's straight, because that poor person who is being fired deserved to 323 00:21:21.980 --> 00:21:25.779 have the have a straight conversation and to understand what was being said. I 324 00:21:25.859 --> 00:21:27.259 had to intervene at the last minute. We walked at the door because I 325 00:21:27.259 --> 00:21:30.779 realized you didn't know what it actually happened and that was a that was a 326 00:21:32.019 --> 00:21:34.849 catastrophe and I think that might that was a young manager, a new manager, 327 00:21:34.930 --> 00:21:38.490 and they learned a lot from that. You're aise a good point here, 328 00:21:38.569 --> 00:21:42.849 because obviously you on experience manager. I'd like to see it's not been 329 00:21:42.970 --> 00:21:48.880 also around the block party to be but I remember the beginning of my carry 330 00:21:48.880 --> 00:21:52.880 as being a manager and it was quite grey difficult because I was promoted from 331 00:21:52.880 --> 00:21:56.799 wizard. So I will I to manage basically my friends, which is not 332 00:21:56.960 --> 00:22:02.269 easy and you've got to really think about the emotion right, because it probably 333 00:22:02.269 --> 00:22:04.190 don't feel good about that. But it's not about me, it's about you 334 00:22:04.230 --> 00:22:08.150 today. What advice would you give to less experience me the like people will 335 00:22:08.150 --> 00:22:12.430 start to your that carry and obviously they can't get everything right straight when I 336 00:22:12.470 --> 00:22:15.740 don't sure it is spook about a few things of this week. Humility, 337 00:22:17.180 --> 00:22:19.180 you know, being able to appologize. It was kind of writing the couch 338 00:22:19.259 --> 00:22:23.700 of it. What do you think have the key call value on the key 339 00:22:23.819 --> 00:22:30.890 things that that a young leader should should really lost? I think if they 340 00:22:30.009 --> 00:22:34.930 got if they made peace with it's more important to be respected than light, 341 00:22:36.289 --> 00:22:41.170 and by that I mean that you have a responsibility to be unpopular sometimes. 342 00:22:41.289 --> 00:22:44.720 Get used to being the bad guy sometimes, and it's okay. That's part 343 00:22:44.720 --> 00:22:49.400 of your job. And if you cannot get past that level of discomfort and 344 00:22:49.799 --> 00:22:52.319 you don't, you shouldn't be a manager. So you need to make peace 345 00:22:52.359 --> 00:22:56.000 with the fact that you will have to have hard conversations and you will have 346 00:22:56.119 --> 00:23:02.549 to be unpopular and that it's part of the job. And so I would 347 00:23:02.549 --> 00:23:07.190 say also if there's a conversation that you wish you were having but you would 348 00:23:07.190 --> 00:23:11.190 you're not having or you're talking about someone behind their back or you're saying it 349 00:23:11.230 --> 00:23:14.660 to everyone but the person, that is a major red flag that you should 350 00:23:14.660 --> 00:23:17.779 be having a conversation with a person. So I am always hardest to my 351 00:23:17.859 --> 00:23:21.579 people's faces and I promote them behind their backs or, sorry, when I'm 352 00:23:21.579 --> 00:23:25.019 in the room without them, I promote them. But the toughest conversation you 353 00:23:25.140 --> 00:23:27.650 should have to someone on your team is to their face, not behind it 354 00:23:27.730 --> 00:23:33.450 back. And and it's about having integrity and it's about having the strength of 355 00:23:33.529 --> 00:23:37.289 character to be able to put yourself in uncomfortable positions. So keep challenging yourself 356 00:23:37.289 --> 00:23:41.329 to do it and think about the phrase clear is kind, unclear is on 357 00:23:41.410 --> 00:23:44.680 kind. And also, if you were the other person, would you want 358 00:23:44.720 --> 00:23:47.839 to be talked about behind your back or would you rather someone set it to 359 00:23:47.880 --> 00:23:51.440 your face and gave you a chance to fix it? Yeah, and I 360 00:23:51.519 --> 00:23:53.920 also think you know that. Another major mistake I see is people live leaf 361 00:23:55.000 --> 00:23:59.549 performance management conversations to the last minute where they're vague or the person is surprised 362 00:23:59.630 --> 00:24:03.349 that all of a sudden they're on a performance improven plan because their manager hasn't 363 00:24:03.390 --> 00:24:07.829 been having those conversations. So it should not be one big dramatic conversation, 364 00:24:07.230 --> 00:24:11.460 it should be a series of so, by the way, I noticed this 365 00:24:11.579 --> 00:24:15.059 this week. That's you know, my feedback to you is x y zed, 366 00:24:15.380 --> 00:24:18.019 please don't do that again and move on and then shake it off, 367 00:24:18.299 --> 00:24:21.700 you know, don't carry it with you. Shake it off, put up 368 00:24:21.700 --> 00:24:26.130 behind you, move on. So, but I think getting comfortable with being 369 00:24:26.210 --> 00:24:30.730 unpopular is is is it? It's just a fact of leadership. You've just 370 00:24:30.809 --> 00:24:33.970 got to be there is some much, great, great things. From what 371 00:24:34.089 --> 00:24:38.079 you're saying, I can do protgue the point about letting the situation Festi on 372 00:24:38.200 --> 00:24:42.960 it a bit. Well, we see that with with younger manager where they 373 00:24:44.759 --> 00:24:48.920 don't really wanted dead off people or they don't want to have that non comfortable 374 00:24:49.079 --> 00:24:52.829 conversation with people, and what we try into. Good Jim, he's what 375 00:24:52.950 --> 00:24:57.910 who are speaking about. All you. You are helping them. So basically 376 00:24:57.950 --> 00:25:03.549 not giving them the feedback there and then quick on it and basically just just 377 00:25:04.470 --> 00:25:07.460 trying to brush it on the the calpet, you know, being in denial 378 00:25:07.779 --> 00:25:11.299 of the issue and again of thinking ways, okay, is going to get 379 00:25:11.339 --> 00:25:14.539 better. It's it's terrible things. You need you need to be on it, 380 00:25:14.700 --> 00:25:15.819 you need to speak about it at least, and you try, need 381 00:25:15.859 --> 00:25:19.700 to treat to put something in place. But we see that as an issue. 382 00:25:21.339 --> 00:25:22.329 Again, you know, from our side we do a lot of promotion 383 00:25:22.410 --> 00:25:26.130 from within. So there is always like a far months to six months time 384 00:25:26.250 --> 00:25:29.930 frame for people to really get up to speed. So now we've got to 385 00:25:30.009 --> 00:25:33.490 measure a bit of framework we've got. We've got an operatics academy as well. 386 00:25:33.569 --> 00:25:37.880 So we are bombited just to get quicker on to this concept that we 387 00:25:37.519 --> 00:25:41.480 am going to use the case kind and case isn't kind, because I think 388 00:25:41.519 --> 00:25:47.799 it's it's a great concept and actually a really incited but one thing I'd say 389 00:25:47.799 --> 00:25:51.430 that I've seen work really well and that I do with all of my teams 390 00:25:51.670 --> 00:25:56.190 is, and do it once a quarter or certainly twice a year, is 391 00:25:56.269 --> 00:25:59.710 this it's like speed dating feedback, and what you do is you have all 392 00:25:59.750 --> 00:26:03.390 of your team members and you give everyone a sheet with the name of every 393 00:26:03.789 --> 00:26:07.740 of different people on the team and they have to write three things I appreciate 394 00:26:07.779 --> 00:26:11.180 about you and one thing I wish you would do differently. And everyone, 395 00:26:11.220 --> 00:26:15.180 everyone gets paired and they have three minutes each and it's only between that person, 396 00:26:15.420 --> 00:26:18.460 each person, the individuals, the two individuals. But I do it 397 00:26:18.569 --> 00:26:21.529 with my team and so all of them are forced to tell me one thing 398 00:26:21.569 --> 00:26:25.130 they wish I would do differently, and so it may gives them permission to 399 00:26:25.210 --> 00:26:27.930 give me feedback and it also might show me some blind spots. Right. 400 00:26:27.970 --> 00:26:30.569 So if they're not uncomfortable, because everyone has to do it, it's just 401 00:26:30.769 --> 00:26:33.400 me in the person and I'm doing it for them as well, and I 402 00:26:33.440 --> 00:26:37.160 think I've seen that work really well. So it's like three minutes speed dating 403 00:26:37.599 --> 00:26:41.519 everybody one on one, and it's and everyone gets to take away their sheets 404 00:26:41.559 --> 00:26:44.400 at the end of the day as well, and references and when they do 405 00:26:44.480 --> 00:26:47.309 their next quarterly feedbacks, I should they can say, okay, has anything 406 00:26:47.430 --> 00:26:51.549 changed or is there is there a trend? HAS ANYTHING IMPROVED HERE? But 407 00:26:51.670 --> 00:26:52.990 it just makes it normal. It's like it's not a big deal. Getting 408 00:26:52.990 --> 00:26:56.750 feedback treatings. I appreciate about you. One thing I wish you do differently 409 00:26:56.789 --> 00:27:00.390 and everyone on the team is paired with each other and everyone gets to give 410 00:27:00.390 --> 00:27:03.220 each other feedback, because even wraps, you can know reps have issues with 411 00:27:03.259 --> 00:27:04.500 each other as well, which they grumble about behind their backs, but they 412 00:27:04.539 --> 00:27:08.900 don't actually address this. So this is an opportunity to help instill that culture 413 00:27:08.980 --> 00:27:14.579 feedback. Yeah, we are, we are implementing something at the moment is 414 00:27:14.660 --> 00:27:18.009 different, but it's I guess it's got the same the same objective, which 415 00:27:18.049 --> 00:27:22.490 is really getting back on the managers and the people we run. Implements Industry 416 00:27:22.490 --> 00:27:26.250 six sleeping back, which is basically each manager. I'm I'll stopped with myself 417 00:27:26.369 --> 00:27:27.490 and my team, so we'll see what they what they come back with. 418 00:27:27.930 --> 00:27:32.960 That's good. Yeah, yeah, well, we really to do it because, 419 00:27:33.000 --> 00:27:36.119 you know, we want our managers to kill comfortable about it. So 420 00:27:36.240 --> 00:27:40.680 we wanted to do it to the manager before they get that's even doing it 421 00:27:40.759 --> 00:27:42.920 to them. But I think it's also very important to longer somebody the team 422 00:27:42.960 --> 00:27:47.230 things, you know, and in there we've got things like, you know, 423 00:27:48.630 --> 00:27:51.150 respect and I think we may want to resplace some of it based on 424 00:27:51.230 --> 00:27:53.190 the congression with this morning, you know, but some of the things that 425 00:27:53.230 --> 00:27:57.619 you mentioned. But it's free about trained on the stones if the leader is 426 00:27:57.700 --> 00:28:02.259 really anything because again sometimes I think, and particularly for the younger leader, 427 00:28:02.660 --> 00:28:04.299 you may try, you may think that you are doing your best, and 428 00:28:04.380 --> 00:28:07.339 it happens to me when I'm when I grew up in leadership, to think 429 00:28:07.420 --> 00:28:11.099 and doing the best and then releasing six months later that I was I was 430 00:28:11.140 --> 00:28:14.690 actually getting it completely wrong. And that's where we won't we think that the 431 00:28:14.769 --> 00:28:17.410 feed back, so you know, is that the speed dating, which we 432 00:28:17.450 --> 00:28:19.849 should also do, or the and I think to speed dating is actually quite 433 00:28:19.890 --> 00:28:23.490 interesting because with everybody working from him, you could be pair to pretty much 434 00:28:23.529 --> 00:28:26.130 anyone in the company. Oh you know, it doesn't need just to be 435 00:28:26.200 --> 00:28:30.519 out your direct reports. It could be also kind of Nice Way to meet 436 00:28:30.599 --> 00:28:33.000 New People in the organization, people you don't have the chance to speak of 437 00:28:33.119 --> 00:28:37.880 anways. But the three hundred and sixty fif back. Yeah, we we're 438 00:28:37.880 --> 00:28:41.869 going to push that out and see what happened. Have you I don't know 439 00:28:41.950 --> 00:28:48.430 if you're if you are Netflix, find out not exact. Yes, well, 440 00:28:48.509 --> 00:28:51.670 I've been you. I don't think we had the choice of our over 441 00:28:51.789 --> 00:28:55.589 covid nint do. But there is a problem that I watch now. I've 442 00:28:55.630 --> 00:28:57.740 been thinking about it quite a lot through the conversation, which is called last 443 00:28:57.819 --> 00:29:03.740 chance. You nurse. Yeah, well, o'ther, go and try to 444 00:29:03.779 --> 00:29:07.380 watch it. It's there is a few seasons. So there is one season 445 00:29:07.420 --> 00:29:11.730 about American football and one season about basketball and if you watch it, I 446 00:29:11.970 --> 00:29:15.089 don't remember the name of the people or why it was they with someone in 447 00:29:15.210 --> 00:29:19.210 the in California, I believe, and it's a it's a basketball coach with 448 00:29:19.369 --> 00:29:25.119 taking really unprivileged kids that are, you know, probably not really good to 449 00:29:25.200 --> 00:29:30.279 get to the rights university but are absolutely amazing athlete and basically there's a last 450 00:29:30.319 --> 00:29:33.119 chance in life to do something with themselves, because if they don't become a 451 00:29:33.160 --> 00:29:36.799 good basketball player, the chances are that they will go back to do some 452 00:29:36.920 --> 00:29:41.750 bad stuff. And and I think for the people who are listening to us 453 00:29:41.829 --> 00:29:45.349 that are not really keen on reading ready, all can do and read a 454 00:29:45.390 --> 00:29:48.190 book about it, but once toone Dost on the concept, they really need 455 00:29:48.309 --> 00:29:52.500 to watch less change you, because I think it's quite an emotional thing as 456 00:29:52.539 --> 00:29:56.460 well. But it's a coach that give them so much shit, the way 457 00:29:56.500 --> 00:30:00.299 you speak to them, passionate, telling them off. You tell them off 458 00:30:00.339 --> 00:30:03.980 in front of other people, Right. So he does it. You know 459 00:30:03.059 --> 00:30:06.420 it will tell you off in front of the rest of the team, right, 460 00:30:06.980 --> 00:30:10.170 and he doesn't hesitate to put them in the spot and everything, which 461 00:30:10.170 --> 00:30:11.490 I think is when I was watching it at the beginning, it was not 462 00:30:11.529 --> 00:30:15.529 to comfortable with because as that's a terrible way of leading. Right, you 463 00:30:15.569 --> 00:30:18.490 should put them apart to them. But then you realize the back end of 464 00:30:18.529 --> 00:30:22.440 it and how much care for them. Right, all the thing that he 465 00:30:22.599 --> 00:30:29.000 does for them, and this is from my perspective, kind of really align 466 00:30:29.119 --> 00:30:32.640 with the conversation today, is a man that's really cared, is full of 467 00:30:32.759 --> 00:30:34.829 passion, but yeah, when it comes to will, he comes to crunch 468 00:30:34.869 --> 00:30:38.109 time when he's got something to tell you. I mean he is ridicule, 469 00:30:38.349 --> 00:30:42.589 is radical, is clear, is it doesn't sound unkind, but I think 470 00:30:42.589 --> 00:30:45.349 he's really helping them and the real it is that they go and win that 471 00:30:45.390 --> 00:30:48.990 championship, so he actually get them to the top so they also achieve something 472 00:30:49.019 --> 00:30:53.859 exceptional together during the season. So yeah, so definitely probably want to run 473 00:30:53.980 --> 00:30:56.460 through walls for him. They want to do it for him as well, 474 00:30:56.539 --> 00:31:00.220 because they know he cares. And you can see all the moments. You 475 00:31:00.259 --> 00:31:03.970 know it's emotion because some of them are up down there is some guys that 476 00:31:04.049 --> 00:31:07.089 he gets through, someone's I doesn't get through, and you can see how 477 00:31:07.170 --> 00:31:11.250 it's playing on their mind on both sides. You can see the leader and 478 00:31:11.329 --> 00:31:15.369 you can see the the play and it's I don't know, it's quite an 479 00:31:15.450 --> 00:31:19.880 interesting is full of of emotional intelligence, basic and I think it's really well 480 00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:22.960 done from Netflix, the way they filmed it. I don't know how much 481 00:31:23.000 --> 00:31:26.839 of it was scripted or not, but hopefully not too much. But yeah, 482 00:31:26.000 --> 00:31:30.519 I think it but it's not, it's not it's not Kamscut book, 483 00:31:30.799 --> 00:31:33.150 but I think if people don't really want to rich too much about it and 484 00:31:33.230 --> 00:31:38.470 I think get a context of the radical Kendall that's change. You the bestketball 485 00:31:38.589 --> 00:31:41.950 one is is one that they should watching. I encourage you to watch you 486 00:31:42.109 --> 00:31:45.069 and then give me your favor well, I will absolutely well, I think 487 00:31:45.109 --> 00:31:48.779 it also brings back to all of the best leaders capture the hearts of their 488 00:31:48.859 --> 00:31:52.500 people right. So think about how much more they means. People will go 489 00:31:52.660 --> 00:31:56.700 the extra mile for them because they know they are and they want to get 490 00:31:56.700 --> 00:31:59.740 back to them. Yeah, yeah, I mean, and you know it's 491 00:31:59.740 --> 00:32:05.809 it's something that's you mentioned that early, honest. But it's about being very 492 00:32:05.970 --> 00:32:08.569 true to your feelings as well. I have situation. I've got to admit 493 00:32:08.609 --> 00:32:13.650 that situation. Often it's very difficult to care about people. I had situation 494 00:32:13.690 --> 00:32:15.640 Wal. I found it difficult to strike a relationship with people, even if 495 00:32:15.640 --> 00:32:19.720 they were good, because for some reason, you know, yeah, not 496 00:32:19.839 --> 00:32:22.200 everyone clicks with everybody. That's normal. But I think I grew up now 497 00:32:22.279 --> 00:32:25.759 and you know, I think I've got kids, I've got all that. 498 00:32:25.880 --> 00:32:29.559 So I think it changed you a little bit in life. And now the 499 00:32:29.640 --> 00:32:31.750 people are coming in, I'm not. I don't maybe feel as much as 500 00:32:31.789 --> 00:32:35.309 I'm competing with them or whatever. It's more like, you know, you've 501 00:32:35.349 --> 00:32:37.509 got us, traded them as your kids. Right. It's O, Kate 502 00:32:37.589 --> 00:32:43.750 and affect and and I think one thing Hass Rea Change in my style is 503 00:32:43.789 --> 00:32:47.299 that maybe ten years ago I used to probably care because I knew that I 504 00:32:47.380 --> 00:32:51.779 yet to care or the look like I'm carrying hmm. Well, I know 505 00:32:52.380 --> 00:32:54.859 I can say it. That genuinely genuine care and I don't think it's easy 506 00:32:54.859 --> 00:32:57.579 for me to say, because he's my company, right. So, you 507 00:32:57.619 --> 00:33:00.210 know, it's, yeah, very important, because being genuine in all that 508 00:33:00.490 --> 00:33:04.970 you all the things that we are discussing today, is also very important because 509 00:33:04.970 --> 00:33:08.529 the day people realize that you are starting to manipulate them and absolutely on agenda, 510 00:33:08.569 --> 00:33:13.359 I mean that's probabing. You went there's probably when good things just exploding 511 00:33:13.359 --> 00:33:15.400 in your face, right. So they can. They can smell it a 512 00:33:15.440 --> 00:33:19.759 mile away if you're being faked. But also, it's funny what you said. 513 00:33:19.759 --> 00:33:22.119 They're about kids. I I don't have kids. I have a horse 514 00:33:22.240 --> 00:33:25.160 and a dog and I never wanted kids. But I am. But I 515 00:33:25.200 --> 00:33:28.829 joked about joke to my previous past. I said I don't like kids, 516 00:33:28.829 --> 00:33:30.869 but I feel like about sixty of them. So I do. I did 517 00:33:31.029 --> 00:33:35.150 feel like the Mama Bear with them. You know, I've responsibility. I 518 00:33:35.230 --> 00:33:37.549 want them all to to achieve their dreams and keep them honest, and that's 519 00:33:37.549 --> 00:33:39.589 why I think about I want you to be able to go buy your house, 520 00:33:39.670 --> 00:33:43.339 your holiday. You're, you know, by the engage and ring, 521 00:33:43.779 --> 00:33:45.380 by whatever, a horse, and to do that I need to be tough 522 00:33:45.460 --> 00:33:49.019 with you right now, because you're you know. So that's why I think 523 00:33:49.019 --> 00:33:52.460 about it. But yeah, life, life is a life is really nics, 524 00:33:52.539 --> 00:33:54.930 not real sort. You've got to get it, get it now, 525 00:33:55.049 --> 00:33:59.809 and it's nothing better than anything. People you know better, humid people get 526 00:33:59.930 --> 00:34:02.769 into there. We've got we could eat the six finger club or people getting 527 00:34:02.809 --> 00:34:07.610 your class house and made them how slumming party. He's just better. Your 528 00:34:07.650 --> 00:34:10.840 even pot of it is just it just feel very nice. But in anyway 529 00:34:12.039 --> 00:34:14.840 we getting to the innovates. We've been spending fought too much time to get 530 00:34:14.880 --> 00:34:17.440 our Wendy. I think we could probably carry on forever. I wanted to 531 00:34:17.559 --> 00:34:21.440 thank you so much for going staking that. Are Really, really draid that 532 00:34:21.480 --> 00:34:23.510 from gus station. Now now what I'd like to to ask you that each 533 00:34:23.590 --> 00:34:29.190 people. Let's say I'm a European company. I love what you had to 534 00:34:29.230 --> 00:34:31.829 say about for new intelligence are. I want to speak to you about leadership 535 00:34:31.869 --> 00:34:35.030 or whatever. Basically, I want to have a check these. Wendy, 536 00:34:35.829 --> 00:34:37.579 was the best way to get one of you. I'm on Linkedin. So 537 00:34:37.780 --> 00:34:43.139 Wendy Harris on Linkedin, and and also you can contact us to the Gong 538 00:34:43.260 --> 00:34:46.460 website, which is gone. Doll iohe so be happy to chat. That's 539 00:34:46.539 --> 00:34:50.139 great. Well, thank you again it was great to have young this for 540 00:34:50.179 --> 00:34:52.929 today, free stays or alien and wish you very, very well. Thank 541 00:34:52.969 --> 00:35:00.210 you. Thank you, but my operatics has redefined the meaning of revenue generation 542 00:35:00.489 --> 00:35:06.610 for technology companies worldwide. While the traditional concepts of building and managing inside sales 543 00:35:06.650 --> 00:35:10.360 teams inhouse has existed for many years, companies are struggling with a lack of 544 00:35:10.440 --> 00:35:17.199 focus, agility and scale required in today's fast and complex world of enterprise technology 545 00:35:17.239 --> 00:35:23.710 sales. See How operatics can help your company accelerate pipeline at operatics dotnet. 546 00:35:24.590 --> 00:35:30.070 You've been listening to BEDB revenue acceleration. To ensure that you never miss an 547 00:35:30.070 --> 00:35:34.110 episode, subscribe to the show in your favorite podcast player. 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